younger sister or brother,I can't put myself in your shoes,"said Mary."But I alwaysthought it'd be cool to have someone look up to me the way Lisa looks up to you."Hearing it,I felt more guilty and decided to apologize to Lisa.Soon I found Lisa and sincerely apologized and asked if I could play thetambourine with her.Luckily,Lisa smiled,and with a bit more convincing from thekitty,she agreed.From this experience,I learned that it's worth trying to change theway you look at the situation.If you keep in mind that your younger brother or sisteracts like your shadow because he or she looks up to you,then you might be lessbothered by his or her behavior.No matter what,everyone deserves to be treated withpatience and kindness.